Newton’s Purr-spective – When grooming gets out of control

One of the most frustrating feline medical conditions is when our cats over groom, or self-barber. This means they are licking or biting at their fur until bald spots form, and in severe cases bleeding. We’ve tried, and failed at, creating a flower essence formula that would work for all cats who do this. Veterinarians give out drugs but from what customers tell us, they don’t work and in some cases can make it worse. And most people don’t like giving their cats drugs like this, which we understand completely.

We once had a bunny who did this. It was when we gave her less freedom and confined her to her cage more than letting her roam with the other rabbits, she stopped barbering and her fur started to grow back. I’ve never forgotten that and wondered how something like this could help cats.

Recently we received a photo from someone who wanted us to post her cat to Facebook and Pinterest. The cat was wearing a shirt and the person who submitted it said the cat wears it to help with his anxiety.

From Kelly: “This is Roger. You will usually find him wearing some sort of shirt every day. It helps him a little bit with his anxiety issues. Roger found me when he was about a year old. He was living in my neighbor’s back yard. He is now almost 9 years old.”

We assumed that the snugness of made the cat feel secure much like Holly the bunny felt so secure being in her cage rather than being free ranging and thus the self-barbering could stop.

Snugness. There are therapies for children and adults with blankets and hugging that help a variety of emotional conditions, so why not a sweater or a jacket for a cat!

This was such a fascinating theory and solution that we asked our feline friend Newton (who knows everything) to investigate. And this is what he discovered – including a jacket that you can purchase for a cat who’s going overboard with grooming.

Fellow cats: Have you ever heard your person say, “I was so upset I was pulling my hair out”? Hmmm. It sounds rather painful and I can’t imagine it would solve any problems. But people do say strange things when they are angry or stressed. Although we don’t have the pressure of bringing home a paycheck cats get stressed too. By nature we are curious and enjoy intellectual stimulation, but we do value the comfort of basic routines in our daily lives. Change that persists longer than a visit to the vet can really upset our emotional balance.

Examples of stressful situations range from a change in kitty litter to moving across country. A new addition to the family (animal or person) or loss of a beloved companion also increase stress and anxiety.

When we are kittens our birth mom licks and cleans us and makes us feel safe. As adults we find our daily cleaning ritual soothing. It stands to reason that under stress we would groom ourselves to ease anxiety. Unfortunately, too much of a good thing can lead to hair loss as the follicles break. Licking the unprotected skin can then cause sores and infections. Since licking is our natural response to heal a wound a vicious circle starts and continues until the stress is alleviated.

The pet parent is generally unaware of the damage Fluffy is doing to herself until it is painfully obvious. Stressed cats often hide and do their excessive grooming in private. This is one reason to do regular exams on all your cats to detect problems in their early stages. What should be done if hair loss is discovered?

1. Rule out potential health issues such as skin diseases, parasites or allergies.

2. Determine the source of the stress.

3. Modify the environment to reduce or eliminate the stress.

Well known stress relievers include Feliway®, flower essences, calming music, and environmental enrichment.

Another nonpharmaceutical therapy (for animals and people) now widely used is touch. Here are some examples I’ve been reading about.

The Tellington TTouch® has been helping animals and people with anxiety since it was developed in the 1970’s.

The centuries old practice of wrapping fussy infants in swaddling cloths is still practiced today. Some say the pressure simulates the comfort of being safe in the womb.

Pressure and weighted vests help relieve anxiety in autistic people.

The ThundershirtTM, now available for dogs and cats, exerts gentle pressure to the torso to relieve anxiety. The exact therapeutic mechanism is currently unknown. However, good results have been achieved.

“Wait a minute”, you say. “A shirt on my cat? I’ve been dressing Tiger up as an elf for holiday photos for years and he is definitely NOT relaxed and smiling.”

True, the idea of using pressure to calm cats is relatively new. Many veterinary clinics use a technique called the “kitty burrito”. A nervous cat is firmly wrapped in a towel for examination of a small exposed part. Clothing a cat would wear on a frequent or daily basis is harder to imagine. Actually, the term “shirt” is a bit misleading. The ThundershirtTM looks more like a thin lifevest.

Cats are more sensitive to touch than dogs. The first time wearing the shirt they may freeze or even lie still on their sides. As with any new thing Fluffy needs a gradual period of adjustment to different sensations.

No single method is guaranteed and you may find that a combination is required. Patience and experimentation with the examples I’ve given will help you to discover what works best to reduce Fluffy’s anxiety and restore her fur coat.

How rare are female orange tabbies? Quite! Let’s meet one!

Dear Friends,

Thank you for another amazing year. Would you believe that in just a few months we will celebrate 22 years since Cat Faeries was created? It’s true!

During this past year we heard from hundreds upon hundreds of amazing people who told us about their amazing cats. Your kind words and stories mean the world to us – truly. So many of your messages to us moved us to tears, sometimes joyful tears, and sometimes very sad tears – but we welcome them all because feelings are beautiful and are to be cherished.

As we say good-bye to December which was Cat Faeries “white cat month” we also bid adieu to 2014. To welcome 2015 we proclaim January is Orange Cat Month!

Send us photos and stories about your orange cats, your marmalade cats, those creamsicle beauties to – put the words Orange Cat in the subject line and we’ll start posting their orangey selves to Pinterest, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter and in our January newsletters.

This week we heard from Mary Jo who ordered a cat bed from us right before Christmas. She wanted us to see how stunning her orange tabby, Velveeta is resting in her Cat Faeries bed. That’s when we learned that Velveeta is a female tabby which is quite rare. We’ll tell you more about that after we tell you Velveeta’s story:


“Velveeta is eight years old. I adopted her from local no-kill shelter, Crash’s Landing, here in Grand Rapids, MI. They think she was about two years old when they found her in 2008. She was adopted once but returned after several months because she didn’t acquiesce to the diva cat already in residence. Crash’s Landing will take back any cat they adopt out – no questions asked.

She followed me all around the shelter when I went to visit Crash’s (third step in their adoption process) in April 2012. My adoption counselor said “She has never done that!”

In her bio it said that she needed to be the only cat and preferably the only pet – which was perfect for me! I had dogs my entire adult life, but now I’m no longer able to care for a dog. Needing a more independent pet I thought the right cat would be better for me. Was that ever the truth – and I found the most perfect cat in Velveeta! We made a pact the day I brought her home: now living with another diva, she’s the princess because I’m the queen.

In the almost three years since we have both worked very hard on our relationship, getting to know and accept (tolerate?) each other’s habits, likes and dislikes. She has learned I don’t like even play-biting, or gentle nipping, and I have learned that hair balls are part of the natural processes; sometimes I have to hunt them down, other times they’re presented, almost gift-like.

She has the sweetest most patient temperament. She’s very loving, more so as time goes on. I hope she knows she will live here forever. For now I believe she knows that she is safe and very loved.

I suspect she knows that her hair blends with the color of the inside plush fleece lining, and the outer color matches her gorgeous green eyes. Of course it’s all about her! And we wouldn’t have it any other way. Thanks Cat Faeries!“



This is Velveeta in her new Cat Faeries bed.

This is Velveeta waiting for her new bed to arrive!

Here’s a great article about female orange cats written by a long time Cat Faeries friend: JaneA Kelly. JaneA is a very good writer so this piece is a lively mix of science and genetics, with a big pinch of humor, and some cute photos all of which are guaranteed to both educate and amuse you. And yes, that’s her name! Cool, isn’t it?

Thorn L. who is another favorite customer and friend of Cat Faeries volunteers at cat shelters wherever she goes, and she tells us: “I had an angel of a perfect orange tabby girl in my feral colony before I left Charlotte. When I took her to the vet, it was as if I’d brought some kind of princess or prophet in! Needless to say, she was adopted immediately.” Thorn is yet another cool name for a Cat Faeries human friend!

Happy New Year!

Happy Orange Cat Month!

Amanda, a special needs cat who shines brightly this holiday season.

“Our kitty Amanda enjoying her evening in front of the stove with her new Cat Faeries carrot. Thank you so much for the quality kitty toys!”

Shining brightly in the holiday spirit we are happy as flying reindeer to tell you about a very special cat named Amanda. Her adoptive humans have this to tell us:

“Amanda was found abandoned in a city near us and was rescued. She was brought to the Pat Brody Shelter for Cats in Lunenburg, MA where they discovered that she is a special needs kitty, although she doesn’t think so. Her back legs & feet didn’t fully develop before she was born. We read about her on their website and we knew we had to adopt her since we live in a small apartment with no stairs for her to worry about. Little did we know that she’d be able to navigate them just fine if we did! She can jump onto window sills and the kitty furniture in our home just like our other cats.”

“Amanda gets around just fine and she seems to think that’s she’s perfectly “normal.” She just motors around the house and can even run after her brothers and sisters if she wants to. Amanda and all our other cats are enjoying their new Cat Faeries catnip toys even as we speak! Amanda was playing with one of her new toys this morning when I got up.”

Amanda’s human mother, Moira works for a chiropractor and he adjusts her! “She is very good for her appointments and Dr. Jason makes sure her little spine is aligned and gives us advice on how to keep her healthy (massage and stretches) with her challenges.”

“Thank you Cat Faeries, we love that you want to highlight Amanda so that potential adopters will know that special needs cats love and appreciate their Forever Homes perhaps even more than normal cats.. Mandy sends you all her love and is SO happy to be featured in your newsletter!”

All our best,

Rob and Moira

Thank YOU Rob, Moira, and Amanda. It will be impossible to be Bah! Humbug!” this holiday season knowing that angels like you exist.

Read more about Pat Brody Shelter for Cats:

Perhaps YOUR veterinarian will want to learn animal chiropractic, here’s where they can train:

Our wish to our readers and customers is for a peaceful, delicious, happy, merry, bright, and as Amanda would say “Playful!” Christmas.

Love and Catnip,
Cat Faeries

Keeping cats calm during the holidays

Ah, this time of year can be a flurry of visitors, more activity than usual, cooking, cleaning, shopping, and so much more. Do yourself a favor, keep your cat calm which in turn will make you calmer because you aren’t worrying about your cat’s nerves or possible naughty behavior.

Here are our tips:

Company is coming! How to train your guests and visitors to be cat friendly!

We sure love our guests. It’s fun to plan for them, to feed and water them, and create new experiences and memories. Some cats love having new people around, they can thrive on it. But for other cats it’s a disaster! “Who are these people and why won’t they leave?!” Their noise can be upsetting, their smells can be unfamiliar, they might bring a dog or children and heaven forbid they might sit in the cat’s favorite chair! The last thing we want is a stressed out cat – this can lead to vomiting, not eating, being a bit aggressive, or the worst of the worst: litter box avoidance.

Tips for training house guests which will help keep kitty calm and allow you to be the perfect hostess who enjoys your guests.

  • Visitors should be asked to not approach your cats. Let the cat’s curiosity kick in so that if your cats want to be petted it will be asked for.
  • No rough housing! No vigorous petting unless that’s something your cat likes.
  • Give your visitors a favorite Cat Faeries catnip toy so they can interact with the cat. The cat will view your catnip toting guest as a friend!
  • This may sound nutty, but it works. Make the visitor endearing to your cat via sense of smell. A spray or two of our Cat Faerie Catnip Mist on clothing works wonders! You can also give a spray or two of Comfort Zone with Feliway to clothing or shoes. Really! This works!
  • If your cat likes to hide in a back room, let it be. If the cat wants to join the holiday festivities, it should happen when the cat wants it, and on the cat’s terms.
  • Show children how to play gently with the cat. Children should know to not bother a hiding, sleeping or eating cat. Loud exclamations like “THAT CAT IS SO CUTE!” can frighten a cat who’s not used to hearing loud voices.
  • If you’ve got several Comfort Zone with Feliway Diffusers, place them all in the room that your cat spends the most time in. The beauty of the diffusers is that you can move them around.
  • Don’t change the cat’s feeding times. Even a half hour can worry or upset a cat.

To help make your cat more comfortable during holidays, plug in a Comfort Zone with Feliway Diffuser a day or two in advance. The diffuser will last for four weeks (so you may need more than one to keep your cat comfortable through the festivities), and helps your cat adjust to a changing environment. Stress behavior (vertical scratching, urine spraying, etc.) is usually a result of stress, and using Comfort Zone products with Feliway can help keep your cat happy and your home safe. Feliway is used and recommended by veterinarians nationwide.

Cat Faeries recommends:

Comfort Zone with Feliway – DIFFUSER
Plug it in and forget about it (until 4 weeks later when it’s time to install another refill of the pheromone) Fills a 600 square foot room with the calming scent. You may need two per room which is a good idea especially this time of year.

The Spray
The Comfort Zone with Feliway Spray makes it easy for you to go from room to room and spot treat furniture and other surfaces putting the calming pheromone right on places that the cat likes to sit or rest. It will also deter urinating or spraying urine.

Calm and Serene Flower Essence Formula for Cats
A few drops of this magic liquid in the water bowl or in food works wonders to calm down a cat. You can also rub a few drops on ears and top of the cat’s head.

Moves and Changes Flower Essence Formula for Cats
This formula will be helpful if your visitors will be staying for awhile! Cats don’t like change, even if it’s Aunt Martha who’s occupying the spare room for a few weeks! Even moving furniture around for the holiday can upset an otherwise calm cat.

Calm and Serene and Moves and Changes are on sale!

They’ve been marked down on our website.

Celebrating Black Cats in October – Donna’s Black Beauty

For the month of October, Cat Faeries is celebrating black cats. We will post pictures of our customer’s cuties and donate 1% of our October sales to several black cat rescue groups.

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From Donna

Black cats are the hardest for rescue groups to adopt out and place in loving homes. Do you have a gorgeous black cat or two? Send us their photos! Videos too! We’ll post them on Pinterest, our October newsletters, and on Facebook. Send them to and put the words Photos for Pinterest in the subject line.

Celebrating Black Cats in October – Bagheera from Dominique

For the month of October, Cat Faeries is celebrating black cats. We will post pictures of our customer’s cuties and donate 1% of our October sales to several black cat rescue groups.

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Hooray for black cats!! We adopted Bagheera from Animalkind in Hudson, NY (a cats-only rescue organization) on FRIDAY THE 13th (in December 2013). We didn’t realize the date at the time, just fell in love instantly seeing him across the room with a lot of other kitties. We are madly in love with him. So is our other cat. Here’s Baghie.

Thanks for all you do!
Dominique DeVito

Black cats are the hardest for rescue groups to adopt out and place in loving homes. Do you have a gorgeous black cat or two? Send us their photos! Videos too! We’ll post them on Pinterest, our October newsletters, and on Facebook. Send them to and put the words Photos for Pinterest in the subject line.